For example some of those guys volunteer to have their penis locked in some kind of cage not allowing them to have erection or masturbate. ![]() Some of those scenarios are really extreme and even if Im involved I dont have understanding for them. And he gets on the fact she is being satisfied. Man can be just so devoted to please his wife that he lets her fuck other men who are able to sexually please her better than him after years of marriage. But generally it doesn’t have to be about humiliation at all. Or the woman gets on humiliating his man (ideally both). It could be the man who gets on when being humiliated by his woman. In any case there are several reasons why these people are willing to do it. I doubt these differences are somewhere defined like on academic level, it is rather commonly defined by the community. This thing has however lot of forms called stag & vixen, cuckold & hotwife, dont know all the differences. It is generally called candaulism based on some ancient guy called Candaul who had some secret hidden view to his bedroom and enjoyed other guys fucking his wife. ![]() It never came from her, I can officially say it’s 3 years now I have not had the feeling of my fiancee touching my chest with her hand or my leg and whispering “Honey I want sex”. I cannot say we didnt have sex at all though, that year it was like 3 or 4 times but when I look back I see it was only a result of me insisting. but after more than a year I realised that she will always just promise and do nothing. Every time we had the discussion she promised whatever I wanted. I also came up with the idea of visiting sex therapist, she agreed but again. I was even trying to motivate her by gifts, she agreed but again. I often had feeling we had constructive discussions ending up like “lets have sex every tuesday no matter what”, I know how funny and wrong it is now but it sounded like solution to me at that time. I was expressing and communicating my needs more often and intensively to her. Even if looking for it for lifetime with no success, it is very important for me to see and know.Īnd that’s probably the source of my frustration. What is more important for me is when I see that the other half is actively trying to do something and look for solution. And you could certainly think of these changes that woman goes through when pregnant and after giving birth as healthy ones. By reasonable I mean for example healthy issues. I do however have understanding and somehow have the ability to suppress my needs if there is some reasonable cause as barrier. For me sex and intimate life is very important part of relationship. Im not an expert but I believe there are people who have the darkest sexual fantasies or maybe they even practice them and at the same time sex is not something which could affect their relationship if went wrong. Regardless of what everyone thinks about these things in sex like intensity, positions etc it is worth mentioning how you look at sex as aspect of your relationship, which has nothing to do with sexual acts. And Im not talking about sex at all now, that was dead long before but another activities we both would enjoy. ![]() You are not with the kid all the time, you enjoy your work so take care of yourself.” It was this kind of approach that made her less attractive in my eyes and the fact that we never did any activities together to maintain our relationship. And it was always same answer like: “I dont have energy. I had few arguments with her about that trying to persuade her to do something which she enjoys and makes her happy. She always took care amazing of our kid, but when the kid went sleep she did nothing else then rolling on the sofa watching stupid never ending tv shows or browsing social networks discussing all the time how others are doing way better than us. And my fiancee was taking this even worse. but you know you dont sleep, you dont have your own time, nothing. Dont get me wrong, I never regret, I love being father. Raising a baby is difficult, you really have to be that kind of person fully devoted and obsessed with family to enjoy all parts of being parent. it wasnt about her having few pounds more after giving birth, it wasnt about boobs not having that perfect shape, it wasnt even about me seeing her giving birth, no. There were times in past two years when even if I was frustrated from not having sex, I didnt find her that attractive. She certainly is for me these days but I do admit it wasnt always like that. ![]() From what I said earlier in this post about my fiancee, the way I was describing her body, you could say that I think of her as most attractive person in the world.
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